When I open up and share parts of my story, I hear with great frequency: You are so strong. I have to confess, I do agree. I AM strong. However, one thing we often fail to talk about when we admire the strength of someone is the cost.
As most of us know, increased physical strength comes at a cost. We must train, which damages the muscle fibres, and then allow rest and rebuilding in order to increase strength. To ensure the muscles remain fully functional as we increase their strength we must stretch to maintain flexibility. Mental and emotional strength comes in a similar way. We encounter situations that push us beyond our capabilities. We become broken. If we are wise, we will rest and allow healing. We will also look into ourselves and see if there are any areas that need a stretch so we do not become hardened by the challenge that we endured. Our emotional “muscles” are often lubricated and kept supple by our tears, and our rest may come in the form of coffee with a friend, time alone, resting in God, or any other activity that refills our cup.
My strength has come at a great emotional cost, and my endurance in times of struggle could be viewed as admirable. However, I know that my true strength comes from Christ, because I can do all things through him who strengthens me (Phil 4:13). Without my faith, my feet would have failed long ago. Though I do grow weary, when I turn my attention and affection to the God of my salvation I again find the strength to stand confident that our victory is assured. I may not know when I will see the enemy’s white flag, but I know that I will.
Kyla
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